Three Ways to Be More Approachable and Attract Your Soulmate

If you are ready for love but men aren’t asking you out,

it’s time to get curious about why that is and what you can do about it.

The power to attract love truly is within you. It is! So what do you need to know to attract a man who is comfortable in his masculinity and has the capacity to step up and lead the way so that you can relax into your natural radiance?
Here are three simple yet powerful ways to make yourself irresistible to the man of your dreams:

1. Men are attracted to sensuality:

In what ways are you hiding your sensuality? Do you realize that your unique body type, eye, skin, and hair color give you all the elements you need to shine? It is fun discovering the right colors, unique to you, that allow you to radiate your light. Have you ever learned to dress for your body type? All bodies are beautiful, especially when you discover how to choose the right clothes to feel more confident, comfortable, sexy, and fluid. You’ll finally fall in love with yourself when you know what works for you, without having to change, and a woman in a loving relationship with herself becomes undeniably attractive to men.
Challenge: Go to the paint section at Home Depot, pinch the pad of your index finger, and match the red of the finger to a matching color swatch. Take this swatch shopping and look for lipstick or clothes in this color. Be curious!

2. Men need signals:

Your eyes are the windows to your soul, and they can communicate volumes without saying a word. When you engage in meaningful eye contact, you show confidence and openness, inviting others to connect with you on a deeper level. So, the next time you lock eyes with someone you're interested in, hold their gaze for a moment longer before you drop your gaze and look to the side. Let them see the beauty and warmth in your soul. If this feels scary, empower yourself to stay in your body and breathe; it gets easier.
Next Challenge: Can you entice him to say hello with your eyes and smile, letting him be the first to speak?

3. Embrace Your Loving Exterior:

Your body language speaks louder than words, so make sure it says all the right things. Stand tall with your shoulders back, exuding confidence and self-assurance. Keep your arms relaxed by your sides, signaling you're approachable and open to connection. And don't forget to add a gentle sway to your hips as you move, radiating feminine energy and allure. (Try walking with each foot stepping onto the line at the center of your body. This will allow your hips to sway, and you will begin enjoying a more feminine walk.) Remember, when you can slow your stroll and soften your edges, the comfort you exude with your presence becomes magnetic.
Next Challenge: Join a regular yoga class and stretch your body so that standing with relaxed confidence becomes natural.

Sidenote: You do not owe a man anything when you make yourself approachable. If you don’t like his words or energy, say: No, thank you. I feel uncomfortable when you say that. I don’t like that feeling, and I am not comfortable with this conversation. Have a nice day. Goodbye.
Keep in mind that most men just feel awkward when they are in the presence of a woman they are attracted to, so be kind and firm if you don’t like his vibe.

These simple yet powerful tips will help you become more approachable so that you stay open to possibilities.

Remember, you are safe, secure, loved and adored. You are worthy of a great man. So, why not make attracting love fun? Keep shining bright, darling, and watch as the love you desire floods your life.

With love and light,
Kristin

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