You deserve to be ROMANCED
If there was a roadmap to love, would you open it?
What if this road map was a treasure hunt of sorts? Would that intrigue you?
I believe there IS a road map to love. This road map is built into your emotions. Your emotions are your clue. Emotions are the guide to whether you are on the right path or not.
A clear example of a wrong turn is the emotion of depression. It’s impossible to feel love and see love when you are caught in apathy, inertia, and feeling bad. Imagine this emotion were a road sign on your map that was telling you you are going the wrong way.
When you are going the wrong way you meet a barrier. Call it a dead end or a cul-de-sac. The barrier is a clear sign that it’s time to turn around and re-orient yourself with love. What does love feel like after all? It doesn’t feel like depression, I know that.
Here’s something interesting that I think you should know.
Women get depressed 👉 when we feel unsupported.
Men get depressed 👉 when they feel unneeded. 1
Notice here, the opposing sexes, each with a very different basic need. Men need to feel needed. Women need to feel supported. The difference is women don’t need to feel needed and men don’t need to feel supported.
When you find yourself in relationship with a needy man, it may feel good to be needed at first but after a while you will lose respect for him and feel resentful to him.
And when you are trying to do everything yourself in order to prove your smarts, your strength, your value, and your capabilities, you are actually undermining your true happiness—that which comes by allowing yourself to be supported.
Feeling down, depressed, and unfulfilled are all signs you are going the wrong way. These feelings are your cue that you are going against the divine order of things. When you turn your chariot around and actually let a man know you need his support, his attention, his ability to care for you, tend to you, and love you, you will start to recognize that ROMANCE has come back into your life!
So stop chasing after wounded men who “need you to help them heal” and start allowing yourself to receive the help of a healthy masculine man who wants to support you. The more you allow yourself to receive the support of men (who, by the way, are dying to be needed by you), the closer you come to attracting the love of your life.
Romance comes when you let men know that you need them. It’s so much easier than we have been led to believe. Dissolve the barrier of fierce self-sufficiency and let love back into your life. You’ll discover that is where your true strength lies, the ability to receive. And with that choice, all of the sudden you will realize that the signs on your roadmap are signs of self-assurance, relaxation, warmth, and quite possibly, love.
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“Mars and Venus on a Date”, John Gray, P.h.D