From The Breakup To The Breakthrough: Finding Your Inner Goddess

Navigating the depths of a breakup can leave you feeling like you’re lost at sea. The hollow waves of longing and loss crash against you, pull you under, and threaten to drown you in a sea of sadness and confusion. Just as you feel yourself giving up, a voice inside you says, “You are stronger than this.” An upwelling desire lifts you up and for a moment, the storm clears.

The goddess within is speaking. She says I am here, and this feminine fragility that you feel is not a weakness, but a strength. Claim the true source of your power and you will rise again. Do not resist your true essence for you are the daughter of the sea. You are born to swim in the dark depths of emotions at times, and just as you sink in pain and separation, you will also rise in love and connection. Find the part of you that embraces it all, and you will awaken to the power of the feminine within. You will align with the divine creatix. You will become the source of life’s inspiration. 

Embrace your authentic self, daughter, and the storm will subside. Let the sun break through the clouds again. And as the water becomes calm and clear, notice the tranquil pool of liquid gold glimmering back at you.

Feel the warmth streaming through you as you gaze upon the golden reflection. Let it spread through your body, like the soft caress of a gentle breeze on a summer evening. Awaken to this feeling of self-love and self-acceptance as if you’re wrapping yourself in a soft blanket of comfort and security. Begin to see yourself in a new light, like a delicate flower blooming in a lush garden, each petal opening up to reveal your true beauty.

As you embrace your fragility the world around you starts to change as well, like a kaleidoscope of colors and sensations. You feel more alive than ever before, like a phoenix rising from the ashes of your former self. You begin to attract people and experiences that align with your true self, like a magnet drawing in everything you need for your highest good.

Continue on this journey of self-discovery, your inner goddess says, and realize that the breakup was just a stepping stone on your path towards your true destiny. You are strong, powerful, and resilient, like a majestic eagle soaring high above the clouds. The world is yours for the taking and you embrace it with open arms, ready to create the life of your dreams.

Now, what is it that you will create? Because you can have it all as long as you don’t get lost in a sea of self-pity. This being human is a guest house, open the door and welcome all the experiences of your life and know that they all have their place on your soul’s path to love. 

My daughter, your longing is holy. Can you feel it? 

Are you ready to discover the truth of you?

Can you hear the whisper of your inner goddess asking you to rise?


This beautiful little story was inspired by a client of mine who chose to turn her break up into a break through by following her longing, listening to her inner goddess, and choosing herself over her self-pity. By choosing the path of healing and self-discovery over building an impenetrable wall of protection around her heart, she ended up on top. She rose, trusting her inner voice, and followed the path of self-discovery that carried her across the ocean of separation to real and lasting love.

If you feel called to overcome life’s letdowns, I invite you to join us this summer to “Attract Your Soulmate The Yogini Way.” This program offers you the opportunity to heal your heart, awaken your inner creatix, and begin designing your life like a goddess. I invite you to schedule a free 30-minute clarity call to find out if this program is right for you. 


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